Monday, May 30, 2005,5/30/2005 10:41:00 AM
Special weekend
Weekend ini special banget buat kita. Untuk pertama kalinya Ben pisah dari aku, gak bobo di rumah. Peter Pan, day care tempat Ben tiap hari aku titipin selain hari Sabtu dan Minggu tentunya, mengadakan acara weekend-an tanpa genitori / orang tua ke Fattoria Ca' di Gianni. Image hosted by Photobucket.com Berangkat hari Sabtu pagi dengan pullman ( bis) bersama-sama dengan 12 anak- anak seumuran Ben dan beberapa educatrice, nginep semalam di pertanian baru hari Minggunya para orang tua boleh menjemput. Tanpa aku sadari airmataku menetes waktu bis berjalan meninggalkan tempat parkir..... Duh...rumah rasanya sepi...banget. Biasanya ke mana-mana selalu ada yang ngikuti...atau celoteh..celoteh..Ben yang mengiang di telinga... mama...mama.....eat koket ( chocolat), ones jus ( orange juice)..ben want eat......put elepan dpd.....kei me..kei me..( take me)..kalo lagi mau minta gendong... Panas sekali cuaca akhir pekan ini, bukannya menikmati kesempatan berduaan hanya dengan suami dengan acara yang romantis, yang ada aku malah pusing...ugh... Hari Minggu aku bangun seperti biasanya, tapi kepala masih berat sekali rasanya. AKu tengokin kamarnya Ben, gak ada.....ada sesuatu yang hilang. Jam sepuluh kita berangkat ke Ca' di Gianni dan sampai di sana kira-kira jam sebelas kurang seperempat...Aku lihat Ben berlari dan kearahku.....memelukku...anakku....buah hatiku..Semua utuh, gak ada yang terluka... Rupanya Ben menikmati sekali suasana pertanian ini karena banyak hewan peliharaan seprti kuda: kuda, keledai, rusa, kelinci, ayam dll. Image hosted by Photobucket.comDari Ca' di Gianni kita teruskan perjalan ke Bagno di Romagna, daerah resort dan terme bath/ spa kecil yang berlokasi di Apenine Tosco-Romagnolo untuk makan siang. Habis makan siang kita jalan-jalan di sekitar parco dan turun ke kali yang airnya jernih sekali. Jadilah Ben main air sampai basah. Mengitari sebentar centro dan menikmati gelato artigianale di depan basillica.Image hosted by Photobucket.com Pulang-pulang, Ben tidur lelap sampai malem, bangun sebentar dan tidur lagi sampai pagi. Akhir pekan yang panas dan berkesan.
 
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Saturday, May 28, 2005,5/28/2005 12:01:00 AM
Recipe: Kama Sutra Shake
Category: Aphrodisiac Kama Sutra shake The Kama Sutra or Aforisms on Love is a classical Indian treatise on the art of lovemaking written by Mallanoga Vatsyayana between the first and sixth century AD. It is one of the most exhaustive tracts on love making in the whole of world literature and covers the various aspects of man’s sex life, also giving practical advice on how to reach maximum pleasure. It is divided into seven sections, each facing a different topic; on embraces, on how to choose a female partner, on one’s wife, on other men’s wives, on courtesans etc. In the seventh part, the Aupamishadika, the subject is the art of seduction; a guide on how to be seductive. A large number of utras ( 36 - 48 ) indicate how to increase sexual vigour but these are difficult to practice in the West as the raw materials can only be found in India. Amongst the ingredients most commonly found in the West and familiar to our taste are: milk, liquorice, honey and sugar. We have chosen one of the easier sutras for you, n? 44, which reads " This nectar is blessed, it enhances sexual vigour, it lengthens your life and it has a sweet taste." Drink it in small sips, well cooled and good luck! More recipes can be found at Mangiare Bene
 
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Tuesday, May 24, 2005,5/24/2005 01:47:00 AM
Baby for Sale
Seperti biasa, sehabis makan malam Nathy selalu pasang satu-satunya TV berbahasa Belanda yang bisa kita dapat melalui satelit di sini, BVN. Kaget sekali pas liat berita ini. Kok ada ya..orang yang gak punya moralitas begini. Karena kemampuan bahasa Belandaku sedikit jadi aku cari - cari di Internet dan dapet berita dalam bahasa Inggris:
A Dutch couple has bought a baby for a reported EUR 15,000 via the internet from a surrogate mother in Belgium.
The couple, who live in Utrecht, has also initiated an adoption procedure, Belgian newspaper 'Het Laatste Nieuws' reported on Monday. The newspaper said it had interviewed the couple, who wished to remain anonymous.
The revelations are just the latest controversy surrounding baby Donna, who has been in the spotlight for some time in Belgium.
The Flemish surrogate mother promised last summer to bear the baby for a childless gay couple. During the pregnancy the woman offered the baby up for sale via the internet, without informing the Flemish couple who had arranged the pregnancy. The couple was initially informed the woman had suffered a miscarriage.
The Dutch adoption couple which was given the baby almost immediately after she was born denies any knowledge of what transpired in Belgium. "We don't know anything of the history and have acted correctly. What went wrong in Belgium is not our problem," the adoptive father said.
Two months before the birth, the surrogate mother tried to pass the child onto a couple from the Limburg region in Belgium. The couple refused because it "smelled" like child trading.
 
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Thursday, May 19, 2005,5/19/2005 11:54:00 PM
Eurovison Song Contest
Baru saja selesai nonton semi-final Eurovision Song Contest yang di selengarakan di Kiev, Ukraina. Tahun ini dari 39 negara peserta. Masuk dalam final Israel, yang sudah memenangkan ajang ini 3 kali, 2 kali berturut-turut tahun 1978 dan 1979, dan yang ketiga pada tahun 1998. Untuk pertama kalinya " Diva" transeksual, Dana International, memenangkan festival semacam ini.
Image hosted by Photobucket.comABBA, group musik yang cukup asal Swedia, pernah memengkan Eurovision Song Contest pada tahun 1974. Pada tahun yang sama Olivia Newton-John, Sandy dari Grease, mewakili UK dan menduduki peringkat ke empat. Penyanyi kaliber international; Celine Dion, mewakili Swiss pada tahun 1988 dan duduk di kursi pemenang dengan lagu " Ne partez pas sans moi " Image hosted by Photobucket.com Historical Milestones a brief history on the ESC from 1956 until 2004 1955 – a brilliant ideaInspired by the popular Italian San Remo Festival, the idea for the ESC was born during a meeting in Monaco in 1955 and adopted in Rome shortly after. The event was to be held for the first time the following year in Lugano, Switzerland; it was entitled "The Eurovision Grand Prix", a name thought up by a British journalist. 1956 *Seven countries entered the contest Each participant was allowed to submit two songs in the language they wanted. The only restriction: the performance was limited to 3½ minutes. The winner was chosen by a jury consisting of two delegates from each country who could award between 1 and 10 points. » AND THE WINNER IS: Lys Assia (Switzerland) with her song "Refrain". 1957 *The whole ESC moved to West Germany, the new hosting country. (N.B. the rule that determines that the winner's home country will be hosting the next contest did not exist then!) New rule: Everyone was allowed one song only! AND: The scoreboard entered the scene! » Top of the list was the name of Corrie Brokkens (Netherlands) with "Net als toen". 1958 *Ok, here we go now: the winning country will be hosting the next ESC from now on! (Generally speaking, anyway – some countries did make exceptions once in a while.) » And this was France's big day! André Claveau won the trophy with "Dors, mon amour". 1959 *The fourth ESC, and the second victory for the Netherlands: This time it was Teddy Scholten doing the trick with "Een beetje". 1 960 *Congratulations, France: "Tom Pillibi", performed by Jacqueline Boyer, doesn't only leave her ESC competitors behind, she also really cleaned up internationally. 1961 *By now, there are 16 songsters competing in the ESC. » But only Luxembourg can shine with Jean-Claude Pascal and his song "Nous, les amoureux". 1962 *A new scoring system is introduced. Now the winner can obtain a maximum of 60 points. » Result: Belgium, Spain, Austria and the Netherlands are left empty-handed; Isabelle Aubret from France makes it to the top with 26 points. 1963 *Two international stars, Nana Mouskouri (for Luxembourg) and Françoise Hardy (for Monaco) enter the race but only reach the 7th and 5th places respectively as Grethe and Jorgen Ingmann from Denmark win with "Dansevise". 1964 *And to keep everyone on their toes the voting system is changed again (now each jury can only award 9 points). Udo Jürgens (for Austria) makes his debut at the ESC and doesn't let his 5th place put him off - he's taking part again the following year. » In the year of his debut, however, he could only congratulate Gigliola Cinquetti from Italy for her song "Non ho l'età". 1965 *Udo Jürgens can work his way up one place. Wouldn't it be ridiculous if there wasn't more to it?! » Not this year, anyway: Luxembourg wins. Thanks to France Gall with her song "Poupée de cire, poupée de son" by Serge Gainsbourg. 1966From now on, all contestants must sing their song in their own language! » There was more in it for Austria, and – as if he'd known it: Udo Jürgens had laid his "thank you" out ready – "Merci, chérie"! 1967 *The moment of ESC-glory had come for the UK: Sandie Shaw sang her way into the hearts of the jury with "Puppet on a string". This was something Switzerland unfortunately didn't manage – 0 points! 1968 *Massiel from Spain makes it onto the medallists' podium with "La, la, la" – beating Cliff Richard's "Congratulations". 1969 *This would no longer be possible now: 4 out of the 16 countries shared the Grand Prix – France (Frida Boccara with "Un Jour, Un Enfant"), Netherlands (Lenny Kuhr with "De troubadour"), Spain (Salomé with "Vivo cantando") and UK (Lulu with "Boom bang a bang"). 1970The Netherlands is elected host country. » In the end, though, Dana from Ireland can celebrate her victory with "All kinds of everything". 1971 *Who would have thought it?! The voting system is amended yet again ... What came out of it was a new jury constitution and the award of 10 points per song. » Séverine from Monaco won with her very naturalist title "Un banc, un arbre, une rue" ("A bench, a tree, a street"). 1972 *"Après toi": All the other artists did follow her in the other places until the last runner-up. Vicky Leandros wins for Luxembourg. 1973 *Change of rules: Everyone could sing as they liked. The language of the song was no longer specified. » And for the second time in a row, Luxembourg makes it to the very top. In 1973, with Anne-Marie David and the song "Tu te reconnaîtras". 1974 *The ESC reached a climax: ABBA's "Waterloo" turned out to be anything but a defeat. Sweden won, and ABBA was and will be the all time favourite of the ESC. Image hosted by Photobucket.com 1975 *A new scoring system. 1-8, 10,12 ..., this is the way it is still done today.» Teach-in from the Netherlands wins with a sound as clear as a bell: "Ding Dinge Dong". 1976» The UK decides the ESC in its favour: Brotherhood of Man wins, pleading "Save Your Kisses for Me". 1977 *Yet another change of direction: all contestants have to sing in their native language again. » Marie Myriam sings about a bird and a child for France winning Europe’s heart ("L'oiseau et l'enfant"). 1978 *Ihzar Cohen and the Alphabeta: With this band name, it’s hardly a surprise that the song's entitled "A-Ba-Ni-Bi"?! Delight for Israel! 1979 * And, once again, Israel strikes the right note to make it to the top - "Hallelujah" (performed by Gali Atari & Milk and Honey). 1980 *ESC reaches Africa: Morocco enters the contest. » Johnny Logan and Chorus & Sax get up there for Ireland with "What's another year", win hearts, and turn out to be right with their lyrics – except that that one year turned into seven ... 1981 *Egypt broadcasts the ESC for the first time. » Bucks Fizz takes the trophy for the UK with "Making your mind up". 1982 *This is something the world of pop needed badly: "Ein bisschen Frieden" ("A little bit of peace"). Nicole took the trophy and the ESC to Germany. 1983 *Down under: Australia broadcasts the ESC for the first time. » And the winner was Luxembourg, , with Corinne Hermes and her song "Si la vie est un cadeau". 1984 * "Diggi-loo-diggi-ley": Sweden sends Herrey' into the race to win the prize. 1985 *This was the first time the ESC was broadcast via satellite only. » The Bobbysocks from Norway let it swing and got the cup with "La det swinge". 1986 * "J'aime la vie": 15-year-old Sandra Kim could truly say that life was cool. First place for Belgium! 1987 * Remember 1980: same country, same star, same place – only a different title. Johnny Logan is the first artist to win the ESC for the second time, this time with "Hold me now". 1988 *And the winner is ... Switzerland! And no less a person than now international star Celine Dion made it possible with "Ne partez pas sans moi". 1989 *Another new rule: only those over 16 could enter the contest. » This time it was Riva! They rocked the house for Yugoslavia – "Rock Me". 1990 *New idea: The postcards presenting the participants were introduced. » Ciao, Italia! Toto Cutugno and his song "Insieme 1992" had no reason to fear the competition. First place! 1991 *France and Sweden: two countries were level on points. In the end, Carola made the race with "Fangad av en stormvind", leaving Amina singing "C'est le dernier qui a parlé qui a raison" behind. Why? Sweden got more 12-point votes. 1992 *Johnny Logan: Take 3! Ireland, asserts itself again with a song by Johnny Logan, "Why me?". Performer: Linda Martin. 1993 *And on goes the story of Irish success: The 5th Emerald Isle victory in the history of the ESC was thanks to Niamh Kavanagh with "In your eyes". 1994 * It's almost becoming routine: Ireland practically holds a season ticket for first place. For the third time in a row, the Irish win the ESC when Paul Harrington and Charlie McGettigan pull off this unheard-of trick with "Rock'n' roll kids". 1995 * An evening song, "Nocturne" grants Secret Garden its victory. Norway goes into raptures! 1996 *The number of participants is limited to a maximum of 23 countries. » And, well, almost the order of the day by now: the Grand Prix goes to Ireland! The 7th victory in ESC history is won by Eimear Quinn with his winning song "The Voice". 1997 *A bit of variety at the top: Katrina and the Waves take the next event to the UK with them, and while they're at it, score an international hit with "Love Shine a Light". 1998 *Power to the people: televoting is introduced in the countries with the necessary infrastructure. » And another novelty: For the first time, a transsexual "diva" won the Grand Prix. Dana International strutted onto the podium for Israel!

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1999 *Change of rules once again: contestants can choose what language they want to sing in! » Take me to your heaven": Sweden's Charlotte Nilsson's plea was answered – first place in this year’s ESC paradise. 2000 *ESC goes multimedia: for the first time a commercial CD featuring all 24 ESC songs comes out, and the event is broadcast live on the Internet. Additionally, all fans in Asia can now be reached via permanent facilities. » The Olsen Brothers from Denmark were not only flying "On the Wings of Love", but also riding the wave of success. 2001 *Held in front of an audience of 38,000 at Parken Stadium in Copenhagen, the biggest event in ESC history is broadcast all around the world. » Here, Tanel Padar, Dave Benton and 2XL from Estonia convinced crowds and jury with their title "Everybody". 2002 *Yet another change of rules: The number of participating countries is raised to 24. » Marie N helped the Grand Prix to stay in the Baltic states – it travelled from Estonia to Latvia. 2003 *The award now journeys south from Riga to the Golden Horn: Sertab Erener mixed pop and rap in 2003, seasoning the blend with oriental flavours, and shone for Turkey in the end. Istanbul, here we come! 2004 *The Eurovision community of 36 participating member countries gathered ‘Under the same sky’ in Istanbul where Ruslana, a rising Ukrainian star dressed in leather and furs, won the contest with her wild dancers! This year, a brand-new format was devised with the competition split into a semi-final and a final and, for the first time in Eurovision history, a centralised televoting was installed. All songs and the show itself were made available on CD and DVD. During the show, TV audience figures shot up with an average market share of 50% in the majority of the participating countries. Because Ruslana won the contest with the song ‘Wild Dances’, next year's contest will be held in Kiev in the Ukraine. 2005 *The show will go in Kiev on 19 and 21 May.
Image hosted by Photobucket.comMy favourite is Denmark, Jakob Sveistrup , who is not a professional singer. He is a school teacher and works in a special school for children with autistic spectrum disorder and have a great voice.
 
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Tuesday, May 17, 2005,5/17/2005 11:23:00 PM
Back to blog
Akhirnya bisa online lagi. Komputer down bertepatan dengan bulan2 penuh dengan expenses.....Akhirnya ganti baru dan yang lama masih bisa di benerin di taruh di kamarnya Ben. Tidak cuma itu saja, Credit Card aku di clonning dan di buat belanja sampai batas maksimum di Roma. Agak aneh juga karena C/C aku yang sebenarnya adalah debit card jarang sekali di gunakan di sini karena pertimbangan nilai tukar $ ke € yang melemah. Hopefully this matter will be solved and get the $ back to my account soon.
 
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Wednesday, May 04, 2005,5/04/2005 03:03:00 PM
Puisi untuk Ibu
Ibu perempuanku, engkaulah karena hari ini aku ada engkaulah, ibu Ibu hari ini aku berjanji bintang ku persembahkan, di pangkuanmu sebongkah keberhasilan, janjiku berkatmu gapai semua yang ku impi Ibu, ajari aku tentang hidup yang kaku berliku dan terjal tentang hidup dan kehidupan Ibu, ingatlah itu engkau maha guru, buatku Ibu senyummu adalah matahariku terangi langkahku aku takut tanpamu tersenyumlah selalu, untukku Ibu, dua windu sudah keberadaanku karenamu, cintamu Ibu Puisi ini kupersembahkan untuk Ibuku tercinta yang aku tulis pada ulang tahunku yang ke 20...
 
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Tuesday, May 03, 2005,5/03/2005 12:37:00 AM
Besok.....in the future
Sewaktu masih tinggal di Indonesia dan sering berurusan pekerjaan dengan orang Indonesia, Nathy ( suamiku) sudah tahu apa artinya "besok" kalau dia bertanya tentang sesuatu yang jawabannya dengan kata itu. Bahkan Mama dan semua Tante juga Om-nya yang dulu pernah tinggal di Indonesia pada tahun empat puluhan masih ingat benar apa artinya; besok. Besok bisa berarti besok pagi, sore, malam atau besok lusa atau besok- besok; in the future, some day...one day... Rupanya istilah atau gaya bahasa ini juga berlaku di sini. Sudah berkali- kali yang punya rumah, yang kita tinggali sekarang, sering menggunakan kata itu setiap kali kita membutuhkan sesuatu untuk keperluan dan kebaikan rumah mereka sendiri.Image hosted by Photobucket.com Sudah hampir 2 minggu waktu Andrea, si induk semang, mengetuk jendela dan mengatakan bahwa gravel untuk pintu masuk akan datang prossima settimana, minggu depan alias next week. Sampi sekarang tidak ada kabarnya. Sewaktu kita datang melihat-lihat rumah ini, sekitar 2 1/2 tahun yang lalu, mereka berjanji akan memasang pagar dan pintu gerbang. Butuh waktu 1 tahun lebih setelah kita menolak kenaikan indeks harga sewa rumah. Padahal mereka bilang: "tutti finiti in quindici giorni", semua akan selesai dalam waktu 2 minggu...bah... Nathy sering mengeluhkan lamanya kantor pusat tempat dia bekerja sekarang, Irritec - Italian company of course, yang berada di Sicilia, dalam memberikan jawaban tentang pertanyaan2 dari customers. Setiap kali di tanya; I will do it within an our atau will be finished this afternoon....sampai Nathy kehilangan muka di depan para customers karena jawaban tak kunjung tiba. Pernah terjadi mereka terlambat mengirim sample produacts dan brosurs yang akan di bawa oleh Nathy ke Asia... Tapi tentunya tidak semua perusahaan atau orang Italy seperti itu. Hari ini datang pesanan kamar untuk Ben, on schedule dan mereka datang lebih awal dari jam perjanjian.....rarissimo..

Akhirnya kita pesan juga kamar untuk Ben setelah dua tahun lebih co sleeping sudah waktunya dia punya kamar sendiri. Tadinya ada beberapa pertimbangan yang membuat kita tidak memesan kamar untuk Ben, diantaranya adalah; kemungkinan pindah lagi dari Italy, seringnya Nathy pergi ke luar kota daalm waktu yang lama....dan isi kantong............

Dengan harapan besok, besok lusa..in the future, Ben mau bobo sendiri di kamarnya.

 
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